By Pritesh Kamble, Inclusion Head, CYDA
Mohan (name changed), a young man from Nanded, Maharashtra, always felt drawn to colors and creativity. While many boys in his neighborhood played cricket, he found happiness experimenting with his mother’s makeup kit. For him, cosmetics were about confidence, transformation, and freedom of expression. Yet, in a conservative setting, this passion was rarely welcomed. Instead, it became a reason for mockery. From his school years, Mohan was ridiculed for his mannerisms and way of speaking. Derogatory remarks such as “bai sarakha vagtatos” (acts like a woman) followed him everywhere. People ignored his artistic talent and judged him through narrow ideas of masculinity. Such constant criticism left him feeling lonely and uncertain about himself.
Even with the taunts, Mohan held on to his love for makeup. As he grew older, he tried turning it into a profession. He began small, believing that skill would eventually earn respect. Unfortunately, prejudice continued. Clients dismissed his services-some doubted his ability, while others openly laughed. Though he managed to make around Rs. 10,000 a month, the repeated rejection damaged his self-belief. Over time, he started questioning his work and his identity.
At this difficult stage, Centre for Youth Development and Activities, in collaboration with Intel, introduced him to the Entrepreneurship Development Program (EDP), which became the turning point of his journey. The initiative went beyond business guidance and created a space where Mohan felt accepted for who he is. Through soft skill sessions, confidence-building workshops, and mentoring, he slowly began to rebuild trust in himself. For the first time, he was encouraged to see his individuality as his greatest strength.
With a grant of Rs. 10,000, Mohan purchased professional products and upgraded his services. Slowly, his customer base expanded, and with every assignment, his confidence grew. Today, he earns nearly Rs. 40,000 monthly. More importantly, he has regained dignity. He no longer hides his identity and stands proudly as an openly gay man, a professional artist, and a role model for others in the LGBTQIA+ community.
Mohan’s journey shows that progress comes when talent is supported with empathy and respect. CYDA, together with Intel, helped him strengthen his enterprise and gave him the courage to live with pride. To those still struggling in silence, Mohan has one message: “You are not alone. You are not wrong. You are powerful–and you deserve to shine.”
